When your heart is wide open and celebrating life, it feels wonderful. It’s like you’re in love with everything and everyone. But when money worries slip in your open heart can clamp down hard. Everyone has a ruling Heart Condition that keeps trying to run the show and interfere with your ability to love and enjoy life. But there are other, general heart conditions that can hit us all, even at the same time. Right now, with what is going on in the economy, and the uncertainty, we’re all at risk of suffering from the same heart condition. When there’s a mass heart attack going on, like now, we either open our hearts to each other, as happened to a lot of people during the Katrina crisis, or, they can shut off from each other, which is more likely to happen during a financial crisis.
Men are especially vulnerable to shutting off when financial fears are in the forefront. Not because you don’t have fears as well, but for men, it cuts at the core of who they are as men. It has to do with ego (sense of self), providing, image, face, security and capability. So when you interact with men, especially if he is a husband or boyfriend, know that they are not feeling very manly, that they are insecure, which they don’t like. So, to avoid being too vulnerable and revealing their fears to you, the close down. Don’t take it personally. Most men simply don’t know how to reach out at the times they need conneciton the most. And if they want to have sex, say yes because for many man, actually most men, that’s they only way they know how to be intimate. And they need the connection that intimacy brings. Give your husbands and boyfriends that connection and you’ll benefit by feeling closer.
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